This is going to sound crazy, but hear me out, there is not a better time to be stressed out than in 2019. AGAIN, there is not a better time to be stressed out than NOW. Read More
I truly believe that the word ‘parent’ is very misleading, as so many duties can not put into one very boring word. We deserve something more spectacular or something with more oomph. I personally would have preferred “superhuman procreator”. We got robbed folks. Being a parent means being a nurse and you didn’t go to nursing school or being a teacher and you suck at math. Can you imagine if we wrote a resume based around our duties as a parent? Not only would we be hired but probably be named the company’s CEO, because who’s more qualified than a doctor/engineer/legal aide? Here is a list of 30 job titles that you might want to consider when revising your resume or when someone underestimates the title of ‘parent’:Read More
This is not for someone who just graduated from high school, enjoying their last summer with their friends before they part ways for college. This is not for you if you’re reading this in the back seat as your parents drive you to your dorm with all your new bedding and boxes of clothes that you will not be able to fit next year. This is for the ones that play nurse, taxi driver, superhero, attendee at a fake tea party, and a therapist all in one day. This is for the ones that claim dependents on their taxes, attend parent teacher conferences after working all day, the ones that choose between a new pair of shoes for themselves or music lessons for their child. This is for non-traditional students. Parents that have chosen to go back to school for the third, fourth, and maybe even the fifth time. It’s not easy going back to school as a parent nor is it even an easy decision. Just thinking about it, can be a headache! Is this the right time in my child’s life? Who is going to watch my child while I go to school? How will I work, go to school AND be an active parent? These are not questions, this is you convincing yourself that it can’t be done or that it can and YOU just can’t do it. Instead ask yourself questions like: What major should I pick? Which school should I choose? You need to get excited about this journey because the work will be enough, don’t let your thoughts add more weight. Now that you have decided to go back to school as a parent, here are some tips to help you be a successful student and maintain your sanity.Read More
I am convinced that most of Atlanta is seen from the inside of your vehicle. I heard the traffic was bad prior to, but I was not prepared. Read More
As the mother of a five year old, I ask myself at LEAST once a week, where is “the book” for this shit? I remember being a kid and asking things like, why is the sky blue or where do babies come from? These are the kind of questions I had been preparing to answer. I knew there would be a FEW (yes, I said few) that I didn’t know the answers to. However, I imagined when my child asked the harder questions, I pictured us grabbing a book from our very own library, cuddling up together, pointing at pictures with our eyes wide, giggling about our newfound knowledge together, and walking around outside pointing out the things we read about it in our book. Needless to say, it goes nothing like this. Like at all! When your child asks a question, they expect an answer right away, there is no waiting while you refer to a specific page of a book. When your kid asks you a question, you know the ones that catch you off-guard? The ones that you literally have five seconds to answer before they doubt everything that is about to come out of your mouth because you took too long to answer? Yep, those! You have to choose if want to give the technical answer, that is so complicated they will let you off the hook. Or the Disney version of things where you give such a whimsical and far fetched answer to buy yourself some time. But beware of the Disney answer because this topic will be revisited in just a few months when your child meets another kid that has a parent that gave them the real answer and now you look like the dummy. Or, do you want to use one of your ‘get out of jail free’ cards with a simple “I don’t know”. Warning! Saying “I don’t know” has to come few and far between, because not only do you want your kid to understand things and get into that Ivy League College that they have been destined for since the age of two, but you NEED to look smart! This is to back up an answer that you will use often, “because I said so”. You can’t start giving out “because I said so” responses and you don’t have any knowledge to back it up. I repeat, you NEED TO LOOK SMART! As a single mother, I have no “go ask your father” responses to pull out of my artillery. I bet those are awesome! But how do you explain what a period is to a five year old? Again I ask, where is the book for this shit?
Joey bursts into the bathroom, per usual, her eyes lit up while looking at the bathroom counter, “Mommy are those candies?!” as she pointed to my tampons. I blame these tampon companies on their failed efforts to make these vaginal stoppers made of cotton look fun, colorful, and now apparently edible. I blame my uterus for attacking me on my decision to not have another kid this month. I also blame the hormonal imbalance that clouded my judgement in allowing me to say, “It’s a tampon.” You can already guess what her next question was. I screamed at myself in my head that this would have been a perfect one to “yell get out of my bathroom!” But it was too late. Before I knew it, I was saying the word ‘blood’ and ‘when you become a woman’ to my five year old. Apparently, this whole period thing was so weird and gross to her that she thought I was making the whole thing up. She laughed and walked out of the bathroom, while I hoped that my answer was even legal.
Moms, you will not always have all the answers, the right answers at least. Although, I’m willing to guess that less than half of the moms reading this would have answered that specific question that way, I can also guess that more than half wouldn’t know what to say at all. My answers are unplanned just like her questions. I’m not a walking encyclopedia, I don’t always have my phone on me to google everything, and I’m not always in the mood to come up with the Disney answers. I answer her questions the best way I know how to. And that book you’re looking for, it doesn’t exist.